I'm Learning to Swim, But I Ain't Got Floats

Because for my children it is not optional to learn how to swim, the girls are taking another round of swim lessons this year. We meet at the pool each day at 5pm. It's hot, but at least we aren't baking in the midday sun.

Inwe had it easy. Her instructor is a young woman, and all her classmates are girls. Inwe isn't learning how to swim. Instead, she is perfecting her strokes and kicks to become a better swimmer. Yesterday was the first time she was introduced to treading water. Her best time was 18 seconds. Not so great for us adults, but wonderful for a kid who hasn't ever heard of treading.

Larien began her lessons on Monday with the emphatic proclamation, "I'm afraid of boys," when she realized that her instructor was a young man. Seth did pretty well with Larien at her most difficult public behavior. That day she did her own thing, but did at least jump into the water when asked.

The big production was saved for me. Inwe got a lollipop for her good behavior and full participation in swim class. Larien did not. In case you didn't know, Larien can whine and cry. Oh, can she!

Tuesday, Larien realized that she would have to listen to Seth to get a lollipop. While she barely looked at him on Monday, this day she wouldn't let go of him. I'm surprised his shorts didn't slip off his body. She behaved wonderfully well on Wednesday as well.

Today's lessons were cancelled because of a thunder storm. We'll try tomorrow.

The part about the floats is due to the fact that I bring all three children to the pool without the help of another adult. Inwe is fine if she's in the pool with the slides. The largest pool is more of a challenge as Inwe gets tired and wants to grab for me. Picture this: I'm supporting Finwe with one arm as he hangs on an inflated swim ring; Larien has a noodle but still hangs on my free arm. If Inwe needs me, I must let go of one of the other kids. It's not going to be Finwe. Larien wears a suit with pockets for inflatable pads. Seth says that Larien can swim, but that she is convinced that she can't because she's not floating as high without the suit. I am to wean her off of the floats.

Egads!